Monday, December 30, 2013

Why struggle and juggle when one can gain without pain…!



Why struggle and juggle when one can gain without pain…!
-         Dr.Balasandilyan, Thought Leader, Transformation Coach and CEO, www.visionunlimited.in. M-9840027810
It is not a shock but shame to see lots of Gen Y employees saying this with smile and without hesitation, “why should I struggle when there are umpteen ways to succeed in life without any pain?” Is this right? Is this true? No need to debate on this whilst many employers and bosses are reluctant to ask their colleagues or team members, “Why you have not done this?”
Freedom is not roaming without commitment BUT work with self-starter mentality and additional responsibility.
Cows would move forward with the sound of horns and not buffaloes. I do not dare to compare human beings with buffaloes for sure. I would like to ask, “Do we need tail-twisters around us to make us move forward like cattle or can we move forward in life without any pull or push?” If people are bent upon a system where they need someone to pull or push for every task, it is definite downfall to humanity and disappointment to the entire community.
Greed, power, authority or punishment, insecurity are the driving force today in many places, whether private or other sectors. We have forgotten that there is a joy in serving or doing our duty. Alas!
Mobiles and other gadgets are the main distractors or roadblocks to the routine responsibilities in the office environment. Only a few organizations have taken the bold step of mobile-submission at the entrance or security like schools and colleges. Can people be self-disciplined rather than enforced decorum?
In certain Government offices, it is a pity that the Officers instead of getting the job done, he or she does the job though they are the authority to delegate. They feel delicate in delegating as people just refuse orders in the office and that is the order of the day.
We may just follow M.K.Gandhi and declare “Customer is God”. We need not pray or touch feet of the customer. At the same time we may give them due respect and render the service with smile without demanding the undue. It is a pity that the ‘Trade Unions” have taught people how to fight for their rights but failed to train people to work with commitment and responsibility.
People who have visited Singapore must have experienced one strange but beautiful thing. The people who use public toilets can give their remarks or evaluate on the system of cleaning as a 360 degree feedback or appraisal. That much is the transparent system one can see abroad. Can we imagine such a tool or gadget or system to evaluate a Public sector Bank employee or an Insurance employee in our country…? Those who are rated high by this public valuation system can be rewarded and acknowledged and vice-versa.
When customers are treated badly the concerned employee must face the music as per this system. Bosses must stop dancing to the tunes of the high-handed subordinates. It is possible when we have inspiring and role model leaders.
In private sector the employees are squeezed and in the public sector the customer is squeezed. This must change at the earliest. There is a need for right attitude of employees.
‘Take it for granted’ employees must be shunned with.
There was news in the recent past about a responsible driver who stopped the bus he was driving with lots of passengers when he had severe chest pain. He was rushed to the nearest hospital, where he died AND he saved many a lives on the contrary. It is very rare to see people with such commitment these days in any organization.
People who work with ready-made smiles and with mechanical attitudes are to be changed through stringent ‘attitude’ training.
To gain without pain kind of attitude has to be changed when they are in schools and it is difficult to make the habits change after some age.
Our country will be the youngest in the world in terms of average age in another couple of years. It is time to look into this matter and create responsible citizens if we have to shine globally across sectors.
We need to make this as a movement at home, at schools, at colleges and in organizations – to work with responsibility and commitment without any external pull or push.
Notice sportsmen kissing their bats or gadgets, musicians touching the stage with respect. This is the sign of ‘respect’ one shows to their profession.
Profession or the workplace is where we gain respect, recognition, esteem, status, rewards apart from money. Why we cannot pay respect to our profession or workplace?
Any mental block in this line of thinking must change without any haste. Or else the people of this country would be labelled as “waste”.
Youthful India must get transformed into Useful India. Our values, brought-up culture need to be adored, valued and followed. East or West must turn to us as the ‘most resourceful’ place in the World

Monday, December 23, 2013

Quotes...for your eyes and mind



From Bala’s Desk
"Reflecting on an idea sets the process of
creation into action..." -- Dr Wayne Dyer
"Just as throwing a ball is action that leads to
a higher bowling average; a few moments
musing about what you intend to manifest
will have precisely the same effect on your
manifesting average..." -- Dr Wayne Dyer
Let us not allow people, circumstance, issues to decide our 'expiry' date..! Clean habits, life style, perfect food and calm in the mind can alter the date...!
There are 3 sides of an argument, your side, my side and the Right side. The infinite is the source of joy. There is no joy in the finite. Get to know the infinite. Joy is definite.
Our feather - not for others to fly ! Our freedom - not for others to rule..! Free yourself from worry and agony...to get into Happiness
The trouble with most of us is that we would rather be ruined by praise than saved by criticism
If yesterday did not end up the way you wanted remember God created today for a new try and a new beginning..the best is yet to come..(Chodo kalki baathaein ..kalki baat puraani..Naye daur mein likhengae milkar nayi kahani)
Man has been sent as the 'Messenger' who forgot the message...Alas. what a loss..Now his eyes and ears are closed and only the mouth is open...The heart and mind ..missing too.
Talking is not doing Words are not deeds Seeds are not fruits Needs of the soul are to be met.
வார்த்தைகள் செயல்கள் ஆகாது விதைகள் கனிகள் ஆகாது
ஆன்மாவின் தேடல்கள் தேவைகள் மட்டும் நிறைவு ஆகாது ..!
Strategy without tactics is the slowest route to victory. Tactics without strategy is the noise before defeat. Theory without practice is useless. Practice without theory is baseless.
The tongue is like a sharp knife that can draw blood and can harm people.
Need to acquire strength to overcome.
கத்தியை போன்ற கூர் நாக்கு குத்திப் பேசியே இரத்தம் இழுக்கும்
பெற வேண்டும் சக்தி மீண்டு நிற்க நம்மை ஆண்டு நிற்க...!
We have much stress in life. Because, we focus too much on good living standards rather than living with good standards...!
வாழ்க்கை தரத்தை உயர்த்த நினைக்கும் நாம் உயர்தரமான வாழ்வை வாழ
எண்ணினோம் என்றால் மன அழுத்தம் இருக்காது
Anything that we do must have neatness, cleanliness and with aesthetic sense.
Our genuine interest and passion would reflect automatically.
எது செய்தாலும் அழகுணர்ச்சி, கலையுணர்ச்சி, நேர்த்தி இருந்தால்
அது கீர்த்தியைக் கொணர்ந்து சேர்க்கும் அதற்கு ஆர்வம், ஆற்றல், அழகுணர்வு, அவசியம் தேவை
When perfect minds meet the magic happens.... the spark appears...
new idea begins..! Wait for the moment.
இரு சரியான மனங்கள் சந்திக்கும் போது
பொறி தட்டுகிறது யுக்தி பிறக்கிறது
மாயங்கள் நிகழ்கிறது காத்திருங்கள்..அந்த உன்னத தருணத்திற்கு !
Strategy without tactics is the slowest route to victory. Tactics without strategy
is the noise before defeat.
உத்தியும் புத்தியும் தொழில் பக்தியும்
இணைந்தால்என்றும் லாபம் எவர்க்கும் லாபம் இருக்காது கோபம் ..!
Flaws are common and let us accept and feel comfortable around people who have them. We are here with good intentions as well.
நோக்கம் நல்லது எனும் போது குறைகள்
என்றும் மனதில் நிறைவதில்லை
குறையோடு நம்மையும் பிறரையும் ஏற்போம்.
Relationship is like a rubber band held at both ends by two people. When one leaves, it hurts the other.
இரு குதிரைகள் இழுக்கும் அன்பு வாகனமே உறவுமுறை. ஒன்று முரண்டு பிடித்தாலும் உறவு புரண்டு விடும்.
All your joys can not depend on growth..some on your new memories..and some on your new ideas too...!
புதிய ஞாபங்கள் ...யுக்திகள் கூட நெகிழ்வு தரலாம் ...வளர்ச்சி மட்டும் அல்ல...!
Rewind memories. Reunite with friends. Relive nostalgia and rewrite your goal statement, revisit your vision - whenever your morale is down..!
If one has to name a single all-purpose instrument of leadership, it would be communication
If you are saddened by others' sorrow then sorrow will never come to you and if you are happy at others' joy then joy will never leave you
A Blind person went to temple. Someone asked, "you cannot see God then why are you here?". He answered, "So what? I know for sure God can see me." Passion is required for success in professional life and compassion is required for success in personal and social life
We are made wise not by the recollection of our past, but by the responsibility for our future...! However we need to still live in the present and be aware...!
When you choose not to focus on what is missing in your life BUT are grateful for the abundance that's present, you will experience heaven on earth...!
Those who love food see like this : Rejuven-ate, Celebr-ate, Upd-ate, Medit-ate..! Let us not h-ate them becos of that.
கர்வம் வாசம் செய்தால்
சர்வம் நாசம் ஆகும்
When EGO enters everything GOod GOes out..!
Being ungrateful is just in the increase : Just one proof : "Tobacco companies kill their best customers"! Let us be grateful for every insight..!
The first and fabulous step to share happiness is to wish people complete happiness and abundant prosperity on festive days. Celebrate it with joy
For some, fitness is the disease; for some it is the drug. Three legs to this stand is : adequate sleep, apt exercise routine and balanced diet..! (not balance diet) !
One small and good partnership with God can create endless possibilities... Feel love in you, breath love through you, feel divine in you without limits and setbacks and You will see that EMPTINESS becomes EVERYTHING...!
Onion won't make you cry but the price. Surgeries won't give you pain but the fees. Mobiles are not held but the 'brands'. Cars won't move you but the name. Sachin Tendulkar may not score at times but his NAME. Food in restaurants may not subside our appetite but the bill. Let us get into root always and not the surface when we face any issue.
You can very soon move to a new address - if you address your problems as challenges without self-limiting beliefs. Enhance divine qualities like fearfulness, purity of heart and charity.
The whole World may recognize two words "Huh' and 'Mama'. But breathing oxygen is universal. Consuming water is universal. Mother only delivers. Same way LOVE and MONEY are also the words universally recognized. But I put Love before Money...! How about you...!?
Discussion leads to knowledge  Argument leads to enemies
Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear, not absence of fear! Same way if we are not at peace with ourselves we are at peace with nothing...!
We have a room to sit, a room to pray, a room to sleep, a room to cook and dine, WHY not make ROOM for joy? Sweep resentment, regret, worry, grumbling, and blame out of this room and you will feel nothing BUT joy.
Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear, not absence of fear! Same way if we are not at peace with ourselves we are at peace with nothing...!
Money is not everything. Value is. Esteem is. Self-respect is. Satisfaction is. Luxury is not everything. Comfort is. Love is. Care is. The most expensive gift you can give another is YOU ! Are you ready....?!
When power can be generated from waste, why not from young people's mind...And it becomes difficult for life when education is to produce human machines...We need to add LIFE in people.
One Bill rule the Desk. One expression of YES WE CAN rule US. One metal rule the land. One liquid rule the road and air. BUT ONLY one bat ruled the Score Board. He always cheered us. It is our turn to return the favor. Let us pray for his harmony and peace of mind
When we were all children, we never had a watch of our own but time available was plenty...now all of us have the costliest branded watches But there is no time...We run faster than the time.
We hate a few because we have not understood them. As we hate a few we refuse to understand them.
Everthing is Pre-written! But, with prayers, bliss and grace, it can be "Re-written"!
Wise men speak because they have something to say; fools because they have to say something.
Life is not about the STEPS you have taken, but it is about the FOOTPRINTS you leave behind. Start early when collecting money or honey...stop recollecting the unwanted memory
A true leader is like "ice cube". You break, crush, squeeze, beat and grind them...still they chill your drinks.
"I did a favor" - telling this repeatedly to a friend is NOTHING but insulting him. Those who are guilty feel that all eyes are on them.
We have literally invisible handcuffs and are situational prisoners with our hands tied - there is no sacred but SAD news everyday in the media. How do we change this...! Right Role Models are to be declared and adored perhaps.
A very good relationship needs just two things: A little time to be spent with them and a true care to be shown always.
All of us are fighting with our 'integrity'. Gut feeling, intuition, and self-introspection are best guiding factors.
It is better to be a Turtle who walks patiently and enjoys every step of the way. Rather than to be a Rabbit who runs fast but missing every details in life.
The question is not whether we are able to change but whether we are changing fast enough.
Tolerance is the highest degree of strength, and urge to take revenge is the first sign of weakness. Nobody is more dangerous than he who imagines himself pure in heart.
Journey of discovery is towards Finite. The journey is infinite. The finding is definite. First step is the search for meaning of existence.
Take a music bath once or twice every season without reason. You will find it is to the soul what a water bath is to the body. Where words fail, music speaks.
The depth of our character is revealed in the way we respond to situations we dislike.
When you make a choice you change the future. Choose well and choose your success very well.
Formal education will make you a living. Self education will make you a fortune.
Talking about problems is an addiction - about joy it may be prediction....yet declare it and the same would happen.
A very good relationship needs just two things. A little time to be spent with them and A true care to be shown always.
We tend to teach people how to treat us by what we allow, what we stop, and what we reinforce
No matter who you are, no matter what you are, no matter where you have come from, you can always change provided you want to...The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why
Standing up...now way to work...chair-free offices lead employees burning more calories and also saving from diabetics. Let us stand, understand, withstand...to stand long and tall
Key is to keep things simple. Lock is our own mental block with being disorganized and postponing things.
No discrimination between people for God, Cancer, Technology, Mental agony and Scarcity mind. Be clear with the list of inclusion - where your name has to be...!
The naked reality of shameless acts of human is being watched through the lens of God's CCTV. He writes his verdict in shadows that would come to light.
Doing good to others is not a duty or shameful act. It is a joy, for it increases your own health and happiness. Find the joy of being and doing good.
Everything is fine" - that could be our illusion. Let's define everything; that is the solution. When we define it is called GOAL, otherwise it is called TARGET.
It is not what you do for your children, but what you have taught them to do for themselves, that will make them successful human beings.
When something not so good happens, there are 3 possibilities. You can either let it define you, let it destroy you, or (better is) you can let it strengthen you. Believe. Behave. Be brave.
We need to control 3Ts - Temper, Tongue, Temptation. 3Bs to watch - Beauty, Behavior, Bravery.
Being Happy does not mean everything is perfect. It just means that you have decided to see everything beyond imperfections..
You know why God created gap between fingers...so that some day a true friend like you will come and fill those gaps by holding the hands forever.

Wednesday, December 11, 2013

My program in DD Pothigai Channel from tom

You may kindly watch my next series of "Manakavalai Maatral Elithu" at 8.25 am in DD Pothigai for 5 days - 8 minutes - it is brand new message - very powerful too. Do not miss it. (Days to note - 12,13, 16,17,18 Dec 2013). With these 5 I complete 50 episodes successfully/continuously.

Tuesday, December 10, 2013

Sachin Anthem by Dr. Balasandilyan

ஓய்வெடுக்கும் உனக்காக pray பண்ணுறோம்
செய்தொழிலை தெய்வமாக்கி வாழ்ந்த God நீ - pray பண்ணுறோம்
மகிழ்ச்சி உன்னை நிழல் போலத் தொடர pray பண்ணுறோம்
நிம்மதி நிரந்தரமாய்த் தொடர pray பண்ணுறோம்
ரன்மழை பொழிந்த நயாகரா உனக்காக pray  பண்ணுறோம்
ரமேஷ் ரஜினி புதல்வா நீ வாழ்கவென pray பண்ணுறோம்
நிற்காத உன் ஓட்டம் இன்று நிற்கப் போகிறது
நிஜமாக உன் இடம் வெற்றிடமாய் மாறப் போகிறது
நீரோட்டம் உன்னோட்டம் ஐம்பதாயிரம் தாண்டியது
நீயாக எடுத்த முடிவை இனி யார் தடுப்பது
நிரந்தரமானவன் கடவுள் என்பதால் நீயும் கடவுள் - உனக்கு
நீங்கா இடமுண்டு நிரந்தரமாய் உலகோர் உள்ளத்தில்
நீளும் உன் சாதனைப் பட்டியல் படிக்கத்தான் முடியும்
நினைத்தாலும் அதனை யார் வந்து முறியடிக்க முடியும் ?
நிறைவில் தொடங்கட்டும் புதிய ஆனந்தம் ஆரம்பம்
நீலக்கடல் போல் ஆழம் உன் பெருமை பேரின்பம்  (ஓய்வெடுக்கும்)
எளிமை தாழ்மை உனது வேதம் என்றுமில்லை சுயநலம்
எவர்க்கும் கெடுதல் நினைக்காத குழந்தை மனம்
என்றுமே அடக்கம் அமைதி உன்னுள் இறைவன் போல
எல்லையில்லை உனதருமை பெருமைக்கு மேதை நீ
எழுச்சி மட்டுமே உனக்குத் தெரியும் விருட்சம் நீ
எவரையும் மன்னித்து நேசிக்கும் மாணிக்கக் கோயில் அப்பா நீ
என்றும் சாதனை படைத்து நின்ற கோலம் அப்பா நீ
எப்போதும் சாதிக்கப் பிறந்த அதிசயப் பிறவி நீ
எத்தப்பும் செய்தறியா ஓர் உத்தம புருஷன் நீ
எண்ணம் நீ எங்கள் மனதில் என்றும் நீ - வாழ்க நீ  (ஓய்வெடுக்கும்)

Did You Know?

Did You Know?

1. Your shoes are the first thing people subconsciously notice about you. Wear nice shoes.

2. If you sit for more than 11 hours a day, there's a 50% chance you'll die within the next 3 years

3. There are at least 6 people in the world who look exactly like you. There's a 9% chance that you'll meet one of them in your lifetime.

4. Sleeping without a pillow reduces back pain and keeps your spine stronger.

5. A person’s height is determined by their father, and their weight is determined by their mother.

6. If a part of your body "falls asleep",
you can almost always "wake it up" by shaking your head.

7. There are three things the human brain cannot resist noticing - Food, attractive people and danger

8. Right-handed people tend to chew food on their right side

9. Putting dry tea bags in gym bags or smelly shoes will absorb the unpleasant odour.

10. According to Albert Einstein, if honey bees were to disappear from earth, humans would be dead within 4 years.

11. There are so many kind of apples, that if you ate a new one everyday, it would take over 20 years to try them all.

12. You can survive without eating for weeks, but you will only live 11 days without sleeping.

13. People who laugh a lot are healthier than those who don’t.

14. Laziness and inactivity kills just as many people as smoking.

15. A human brain has a capacity to store 5 times as much information as Wikipedia

16. Our brain uses same amount power as 10-watt light bulb!!

17. Our body gives enough heat in 30 mins to boil 1.5 litres of water!!

18. The Ovum egg is the largest cell and the sperm is the smallest cell !!

19. Stomach acid (conc. HCl) is strong enough to dissolve razor blades!!

20. Take a 10-30 minute walk every day. & while you walk, SMILE. It is the ultimate antidepressant.

21. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.

22. When you wake up in the morning, Pray to ask God's guidance for your purpose, today.

23. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.

24. Drink green tea and plenty of water. Eat blueberries, broccoli, and almonds.

25. Try to make at least three people smile each day.

26. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip, energy vampires, issues of the past, negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.

27. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a college kid with a maxed out charge card.

28. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

29. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Forgive them for everything !

30. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

31. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

32. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.

33. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

34. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

35. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: 'In five years, will this matter?'

36. Help the needy,Be generous ! Be a 'Giver' not a 'Taker'

37. What other people think of you is none of your business.

38. Time heals everything.

39. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

40. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

42. Each night before you go to bed ,Pray to God and Be thankful for what you'll accomplish, today !

43. Remember that you are too blessed to be stressed.

9 சுவைகளை (நவரசம்) வெளிபடுத்தும் ராகங்கள் :

9 சுவைகளை (நவரசம்) வெளிபடுத்தும் ராகங்கள் :

அன்பு (ஸ்ருங்காரம்) - கமாஸ், பைரவி,கானடா
வெறுப்பு (பீபத்சம்) - அடானா
மகிழ்ச்சி (ஹாஸ்யம்) - மோகனம், ஹம்சத்வனி,கேதாரம்
சோகம் (கருணை) - சஹானா,முகாரி, நீலாம்பரி, புன்னாகவராளி, ஆகிரி
வீரம் - பேகடா, பிலகரி, தேவகாந்தாரி
பயம் (பயானகம்) - புன்னாகவராளி
கோபம் (ரௌத்திரம்) - அடானா, ஆரபி
சாந்தம் - சாமா, வசந்தா
விந்தை (அற்புதம்) - சாரங்கா, ஹிந்துஸ்தான் பெஹாக்

புது மொழி - Dr Balasandilyan



புது மொழி  - Dr Balasandilyan
·        கையால் முடியாதது தொடப்பத்தால் முடியும்
·        சட்டத்தை கையில் எடுக்காதே ..தொடப்பத்தை எடு 
·        மோடி விளையாடினாலும் சுத்தப் படுத்த தொடப்பம் வேண்டும்
·        சச்சின் கதவு அடைத்தால் தோனி திறந்து விடுவார்
·        பேங்க் ஆபிசர் போவார் பஸ்ஸில் ...ப்ளம்பர் வருவார் காரில்
·        நல்ல பெண் கட்ட வேண்டுமா பிறந்த உடனேயே EMI கட்ட வேண்டும்
·        மந்திரிக்கு P A ...மனிதனுக்கு பொண்டாட்டி - அமைவது இறைவன் வரம்
·        சிலர் ஆவது பெண்ணாலே அழிவது மண்ணாலே
·        IT அது BUT ஆனால் COST என்ன ?
·        நீ யார் என்பதை கூகிள் சொல்லும் நீ எங்கே என்பதை ஆன்ட்ரைட் சொல்லும்
·        சட்டைப் பையில் டிவி ...உள்ளங்கையில் உலகம் ...மூளை மட்டும் காலி
·        திருட வைப்பது இன்றைய பட்டம் ...தேட முடியாது தவிப்பது சட்டம்
·        கிராமத்தில் கொல்வது பிசாசு நகரத்தில் பிஸ்சா
·        வீடு கட்டினா அற்புதம் ...வீட்டுல சாப்புட்டா கேவலம்
·        எல்லாரும் இந்நாட்டு இன்ஜினியர் ...எல்லார் கையிலும் திருவோடு
·        படிச்ச பொண்டாட்டி மௌஸ் உடன் படிக்காதவள் கரண்டியுடன்
·        படிச்சவனுக்கு மௌஸ்  ...படிக்காதவனுக்கு கல்லா
·        கட்டிக்க காப்பணம் கழட்டிவிட முக்காப்பணம்
·        பிள்ளை பெத்தா பல கவலை பெக்காட்டி ஒரு கவலை
·        காதலி நெருப்பு ...பொண்டாட்டி வெறுப்பு
·        உடனே போன் எடுத்தா பிகர் ...உக்காந்து போன் எடுத்தா சுகர்
·        மிஸ்ட் கால்னா மிஸ்ஸஸ்  ...இல்லாட்டி அது வேற மிஸ்
·        பட்டன் அமுக்கி பேசினா ஏழை ...டச் பண்ணி பேசினா ரிச்
·        எருமை இருந்தா கிராமத்து பெருசு …EMI இருந்தா நகரத்து பெருசு
·        உறவு வந்தாலும்  லைக் உறவு போனாலும் லைக்