Law of Attraction

Are you familiar with the expression, "Like attracts like"? Recently I had an experience with a friend who was struggling with this idea. He was having difficulty coming to grips with certain emotions he was experiencing. He felt controlled by them and this was creating a lot of tension for him. The more he fought his feelings, the stronger their hold over him seemed to be.

I completely understood his frustration and assured him that his situation was not unusual. I told him that with a little work, he could overcome this obstacle. I began by introducing him to the Universal Law of Attraction. According to this law, we attract that which we focus on with the most intensity, and this attraction can create a positive or negative experience depending on its nature. In my friend’s case, it meant that when he focused on emotions or feelings that made him uncomfortable, he ended up creating more of those uncomfortable feelings in the process.

Of course, just telling him this wasn't enough. We needed a workable solution. I suggested that he try looking at his unresolved emotions in a different way. Instead of battling his feelings, I asked him to look at them without judgment. I wanted him to focus on the root of his emotional turmoil because as that point, he would be in a position to make adjustments to his behavior.

My friend took my suggestions to heart and began observing his difficult feelings. He reported that life flowed easier when he could refrain from making judgments on his emotions, and as a result, he was soon feeling much better about himself. By just listening to these emotional messages, rather than just getting upset or worried by them, he no longer felt so controlled by them. And, once he could really listen to his feelings, he was able to get a better grip on why those feelings were coming up.

Now, I hope that you will spend some time thinking about the Law of Attraction and the primary focus of your energy. What are you attracting into your life? My hope is that your Health, Wealth and Happiness will provide you with some insights.

Our past determines...

Our past determines our present and future.

Example: we would have scored less mark in Maths in school days.... then we decide and declare that we are not good in Maths...

Example 2: when we tried to sing in front of our relatives... they would have criticized... the result... we say we are not good in singing.

My cousin literally pushed my head inside Cauvery river when I was young... believe me… even now I am scared of river, ocean, why even waterfalls....... why so much I hate to take bath in Shower........

I don't go for boating if it is self driven… in places like Kodaikanal....

Rita.... The fear will go only if we face the problem....

It calls for a positive experience to replace the earlier memory file in our brain/mind

So are you scared of anything....... eating ice cream in winter.... going in the rain...... taking bath in cold water...........

Just experience it with positive mind... (May be with prior prayers if you want) and you will unlearn that relearn that it does not harm you.

It is the transformation learning.

Experience can replace the memory.... especially bad/sad memory...

Take help of someone who you completely rely or believe upon to overcome fear....

Our elders say if you go in the rain you will catch cold or you will get fever.

Actually your dress becomes wet and your head as well. In fact you will enjoy rain as well.

Any food for that matter if you look at it with deep desire.... then the digesting system would support you.

If you look at the item with fear and hesitation... you will face gastric/loose motion/vomiting etc.

The moment our eyes see the food, a message goes to the digestive system from the brain that we are going to consume spicy food/oily food today... based on which the requisite enzyme is formed in the system... That is why people say do not watch TV while eating...

So everything has to be experienced..... To overcome fear/fear of failure/fear of ridicule etc.

motivational talk by Bala

Are you interested to view my motivational talk in my recent program in Chennai?
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Dear Trainers from South

Greetings.

It is a great news that Trainers Forum( a largest network in India) has organized in association with Vision Unlimited, Chennai a unique workshop - first of its kind - to take the trainers of this part of the country to the next level - titled - "using magic in training"

by an internationally repute trainer at the best investment tariff.. Details can be seen in the posture attached. Kindly rush your nomination.

Limited seats. Also kindly pass this information to all your friends.

Astrology, photography and magic would keep any individual as "one up" with any body. This is for image creation/rapport

building. The participant need not be a trainer. A MLM business leader, success coach, teacher, training managers, event managers

could also participate... or even a student who would like to learn magic... - a rare opportunity. Dont miss.
with best wishes. Dr.Bala

announcement

“Using magic in training” organized by Trainers Forum in association with Vision Unlimited, Chennai

Starts: Sunday October 16, 2011, 09:00AM to 05.00 pm

Event Type: Training workshop

Location: Hotel Savera, Chennai

Radhakrishnan Salai, Chennai

Chennai, TAMIL NADU IN

Price: Rs.4500/-

Seats limited to : 30

Industry: human resources

Keywords: Using magic in Training - an ultimate step in the learning and development industry

Intended For: Trainers, Training Managers, Freelancers, Coaches, Teachers, Lecturers, Event Managers, Training coordinators

Organization: Trainers Forum/Vision Unlimited, Chennai

Contact detail : 98400 27810 – Balasandilyan@yahoo.com

This training program would take trainers to move on to the next level by using magic in their training programs to bring in miraculous results. It is a complete workshop with appropriate kit.

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Please use the following link to view all the photos of the Vision Unlimited 3rd anniversary program held recently in Chennai....






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Are you sleeping well

Recently a friend of mine, Naresh, who loves surrounding himself with all kinds of interesting new gadgets, complained to me that he was having difficulty sleeping. Looking for an explanation for his sleeplessness, I asked him if he kept technological gadgets in his bedroom. He laughed, saying that his bedroom had become the "control room" of his house. That answer told me everything I needed to know about the probable cause of his irregular sleep patterns. A lot of people don't realize it, but all of our electrical appliances and gadgets emit electromagnetic fields that have an effect on us.

The Earth, Sun, and atmospheric phenomenon, such as thunderstorms and the northern lights, all have their own electromagnetic field and our bodies are sensitive to these natural energy fields. Man-made electronics have their own electromagnetic energy fields, which can actually interfere with our connection to the natural ones. For example, I am sure that at some point in your life you were advised not to sit too close to the television or not to stand in front of the microwave while it's running. That's because electromagnetic energy from electronics can disrupt our circadian rhythms, which govern our sleep cycles.

When I mentioned these points to Naresh, I could almost see the "light bulb" going off over his head. He had completely forgotten about the negative effects of electromagnetic energy and immediately started thinking how he could transform his bedroom back into a sleeping space. The next time I saw Harry, I was very happy to learn that he was sleeping better. He shared with me what he had done to minimize the effect of electronics in his bedroom:

• He moved his electric alarm clock from the night table beside his bed to the chest of drawers across the room.

• He removed his computer, and other "fun" gadgets from the bedroom.

• He decided to keep his small television and electric fan in the room but moved them as far away from the bed as he could.

• He likes keeping his cell phone nearby, but put it on the floor by the bed to keep the electromagnetic energy below him instead of in line with his head.

Harry was convinced that these simple changes had made a big difference and that was why he was sleeping like a baby again.

I hope that you are a sound sleeper, but if not, you might want to evaluate what you can do to remove or shift the electronics in your bedroom to see if that makes a positive difference for you.

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My program on "How to improve productivity in work place" for the leather cluster yesterday was a grand one.. Owner/Managers participated. They confessed they have never thought of performance/productivity in the angle I took the session.. They were taken by complete surprise with the approach I showed them... I really want to make a difference in people's life. In case you want a program for your people similar to this.. do contact me at 98400 27810 or balasandilyan@yahoo.com

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Have you been listening to me in Radio Mirchi in the morning... for the past 12 days people have been listening to me... It is just for a MINUTE. But very powerful tips are given... From yesterday it is about "happy married life" Listen to me tom if possible and interested... time & inclination is the key..

Conserve water - preserve environment

Dear Friends,

I made an environmentally conscious observation. I took stock of how much water I was using and then found some easy ways to conserve. The water supply is plentiful at the moment in Chennai – where I live and there are times when droughts and shortages can call for water usage restrictions. While we are certainly amongst those who enjoy free flowing water, that is not the case for a large part of the world.

Currently, about one sixth of the world's population doesn't have access to clean safe water, and that number is likely to increase for many in the future. That is because the amount of water on the planet is unchanging while the amount of safe drinkable water is declining.

The good news is that we can all do our part to conserve water by taking simple measures and such steps can be relatively easy and pain-free. The first and most sensible thing to do is to make sure that any leaks or drips in your house are fixed to avoid constant water loss.

Other tips involve waiting for a full load of laundry before running your machine or wetting your toothbrush when brushing your teeth and then turning the water off until you are ready to rinse. Another idea is not to turn on the shower until you are ready to get in or even get your body wet in the shower and then turn the water off while you soap up, and then turn it back on to rinse off. You could also invest in a water saving shower-head that provides a nice strong spray but uses less water than traditional shower-heads.

In the middle of the summer, a heightened time for gardens to be in need of water. There are also water conservation ideas outside the home. Instead of using just a simple hose, connect a sprayer to your garden hose so that when watering plants or washing the car, you save one water usage. Avoid over-fertilizing your lawn and if you use low spray sprinklers early in the mornings and late in the evenings, the water has less chance of evaporating. Or even better, use a cistern to collect rainwater for watering your plants. Thanks to the Chief Minister of Tamilnadu who insisted on rain water harvesting some 5 -6 years back itself. And the benefits of these tips are to reduce your water usage.

There are many more ways to conserve water. I hope that my ideas have sparked some enthusiasm. Also, feel free to share the ideas with others