From Bala’s Desk
"Reflecting on an idea sets the
process of
creation into action..." -- Dr Wayne Dyer
"Just as throwing a ball is
action that leads to
a higher bowling average; a few moments
musing about what you intend to manifest
will have precisely the same effect on your
manifesting average..." -- Dr Wayne Dyer
Let us not allow people,
circumstance, issues to decide our 'expiry' date..! Clean habits, life style,
perfect food and calm in the mind can alter the date...!
There are 3 sides of an argument,
your side, my side and the Right side. The infinite is the source of joy. There
is no joy in the finite. Get to know the infinite. Joy is definite.
Our feather - not for others to fly
! Our freedom - not for others to rule..! Free yourself from worry and
agony...to get into Happiness
The trouble with most of us is that
we would rather be ruined by praise than saved by criticism
If yesterday did not end up the way
you wanted remember God created today for a new try and a new beginning..the
best is yet to come..(Chodo kalki baathaein ..kalki baat puraani..Naye daur
mein likhengae milkar nayi kahani)
Man has been sent as the 'Messenger'
who forgot the message...Alas. what a loss..Now his eyes and ears are closed
and only the mouth is open...The heart and mind ..missing too.
Talking is not doing Words are not deeds Seeds are
not fruits Needs of the soul are to be met.
வார்த்தைகள்
செயல்கள்
ஆகாது
விதைகள்
கனிகள்
ஆகாது
ஆன்மாவின்
தேடல்கள்
தேவைகள்
மட்டும்
நிறைவு
ஆகாது
..!
Strategy without tactics is the
slowest route to victory. Tactics without strategy is the noise before defeat.
Theory without practice is useless. Practice without theory is baseless.
The tongue is like a sharp knife
that can draw blood and can harm people.
Need to acquire strength to overcome.
கத்தியை
போன்ற
கூர்
நாக்கு
குத்திப்
பேசியே
இரத்தம்
இழுக்கும்
பெற
வேண்டும்
சக்தி
மீண்டு
நிற்க
நம்மை
ஆண்டு
நிற்க...!
We have much stress in life.
Because, we focus too much on good living standards rather than living with
good standards...!
வாழ்க்கை
தரத்தை
உயர்த்த
நினைக்கும்
நாம்
உயர்தரமான
வாழ்வை
வாழ
எண்ணினோம்
என்றால்
மன
அழுத்தம்
இருக்காது
Anything that we do must have
neatness, cleanliness and with aesthetic sense.
Our genuine interest and passion would reflect
automatically.
எது
செய்தாலும்
அழகுணர்ச்சி,
கலையுணர்ச்சி,
நேர்த்தி
இருந்தால்
அது
கீர்த்தியைக்
கொணர்ந்து
சேர்க்கும்
அதற்கு
ஆர்வம்,
ஆற்றல்,
அழகுணர்வு,
அவசியம்
தேவை
When perfect minds meet the magic
happens.... the spark appears...
new idea begins..! Wait for the moment.
இரு
சரியான
மனங்கள்
சந்திக்கும்
போது
பொறி
தட்டுகிறது
யுக்தி
பிறக்கிறது
மாயங்கள்
நிகழ்கிறது
காத்திருங்கள்..அந்த உன்னத தருணத்திற்கு
!
Strategy without tactics is the
slowest route to victory. Tactics without strategy
is the noise before defeat.
உத்தியும்
புத்தியும்
தொழில்
பக்தியும்
இணைந்தால்என்றும்
லாபம்
எவர்க்கும்
லாபம்
இருக்காது கோபம்
..!
Flaws are common and let us accept
and feel comfortable around people who have them. We are here with good
intentions as well.
நோக்கம்
நல்லது
எனும்
போது
குறைகள்
என்றும்
மனதில்
நிறைவதில்லை
குறையோடு
நம்மையும்
பிறரையும்
ஏற்போம்.
Relationship is like a rubber band
held at both ends by two people. When one leaves, it hurts the other.
இரு
குதிரைகள்
இழுக்கும்
அன்பு
வாகனமே
உறவுமுறை.
ஒன்று
முரண்டு
பிடித்தாலும்
உறவு
புரண்டு
விடும்.
All your joys can not depend on
growth..some on your new memories..and some on your new ideas too...!
புதிய
ஞாபங்கள்
...யுக்திகள்
கூட
நெகிழ்வு
தரலாம்
...வளர்ச்சி
மட்டும்
அல்ல...!
Rewind memories. Reunite with
friends. Relive nostalgia and rewrite your goal statement, revisit your vision
- whenever your morale is down..!
If one has to name a single
all-purpose instrument of leadership, it would be communication
If you are saddened by others'
sorrow then sorrow will never come to you and if you are happy at others' joy
then joy will never leave you
A Blind person went to temple.
Someone asked, "you cannot see God then why are you here?". He
answered, "So what? I know for sure God can see me." Passion is
required for success in professional life and compassion is required for
success in personal and social life
We are made wise not by the
recollection of our past, but by the responsibility for our future...! However
we need to still live in the present and be aware...!
When you choose not to focus on what
is missing in your life BUT are grateful for the abundance that's present, you
will experience heaven on earth...!
Those who love food see like this :
Rejuven-ate, Celebr-ate, Upd-ate, Medit-ate..! Let us not h-ate them becos of
that.
கர்வம்
வாசம்
செய்தால்
சர்வம்
நாசம்
ஆகும்
When EGO enters everything GOod GOes out..!
Being ungrateful is just in the
increase : Just one proof : "Tobacco companies kill their best
customers"! Let us be grateful for every insight..!
The first and fabulous step to share
happiness is to wish people complete happiness and abundant prosperity on
festive days. Celebrate it with joy
For some, fitness is the disease;
for some it is the drug. Three legs to this stand is : adequate sleep, apt
exercise routine and balanced diet..! (not balance diet) !
One small and good partnership with
God can create endless possibilities... Feel love in you, breath love through
you, feel divine in you without limits and setbacks and You will see that
EMPTINESS becomes EVERYTHING...!
Onion won't make you cry but the price.
Surgeries won't give you pain but the fees. Mobiles are not held but the
'brands'. Cars won't move you but the name. Sachin Tendulkar may not score at times but his NAME. Food in restaurants may
not subside our appetite but the bill. Let us get into root always and not the
surface when we face any issue.
You can very soon move to a new
address - if you address your problems as challenges without self-limiting
beliefs. Enhance divine qualities like fearfulness, purity of heart and
charity.
The whole World may recognize two
words "Huh' and 'Mama'. But breathing oxygen is universal. Consuming water
is universal. Mother only delivers. Same way LOVE and MONEY are also the words
universally recognized. But I put Love before Money...! How about you...!?
Discussion leads to knowledge Argument leads to
enemies
Courage is resistance to fear,
mastery of fear, not absence of fear! Same way if we are not at peace with
ourselves we are at peace with nothing...!
We have a room to sit, a room to
pray, a room to sleep, a room to cook and dine, WHY not make ROOM for joy?
Sweep resentment, regret, worry, grumbling, and blame out of this room and you
will feel nothing BUT joy.
Courage is resistance to fear,
mastery of fear, not absence of fear! Same way if we are not at peace with
ourselves we are at peace with nothing...!
Money is not everything. Value is.
Esteem is. Self-respect is. Satisfaction is. Luxury is not everything. Comfort
is. Love is. Care is. The most expensive gift you can give another is YOU ! Are
you ready....?!
When power can be generated from
waste, why not from young people's mind...And it becomes difficult for life
when education is to produce human machines...We need to add LIFE in people.
One Bill rule the Desk. One
expression of YES WE CAN rule US. One metal rule the land. One liquid rule the
road and air. BUT ONLY one bat ruled the Score Board. He always cheered us. It
is our turn to return the favor. Let us pray for his harmony and peace of mind
When we were all children, we never
had a watch of our own but time available was plenty...now all of us have the
costliest branded watches But there is no time...We run faster than the time.
We hate a few because we have not
understood them. As we hate a few we refuse to understand them.
Everthing is Pre-written! But, with
prayers, bliss and grace, it can be "Re-written"!
Wise men speak because they have
something to say; fools because they have to say something.
Life is not about the STEPS you have
taken, but it is about the FOOTPRINTS you leave behind. Start early when
collecting money or honey...stop recollecting the unwanted memory
A true leader is like "ice
cube". You break, crush, squeeze, beat and grind them...still they chill
your drinks.
"I did a favor" - telling
this repeatedly to a friend is NOTHING but insulting him. Those who are guilty
feel that all eyes are on them.
We have literally invisible
handcuffs and are situational prisoners with our hands tied - there is no
sacred but SAD news everyday in the media. How do we change this...! Right Role
Models are to be declared and adored perhaps.
A very good relationship needs just
two things: A little time to be spent with them and a true care to be shown
always.
All of us are fighting with our 'integrity'.
Gut feeling, intuition, and self-introspection are best guiding factors.
It is better to be a Turtle who
walks patiently and enjoys every step of the way. Rather than to be a Rabbit
who runs fast but missing every details in life.
The question is not whether we are
able to change but whether we are changing fast enough.
Tolerance is the highest degree of
strength, and urge to take revenge is the first sign of weakness. Nobody is
more dangerous than he who imagines himself pure in heart.
Journey of discovery is towards
Finite. The journey is infinite. The finding is definite. First step is the
search for meaning of existence.
Take a music bath once or twice
every season without reason. You will find it is to the soul what a water bath
is to the body. Where words fail, music speaks.
The depth of our character is
revealed in the way we respond to situations we dislike.
When you make a choice you change
the future. Choose well and choose your success very well.
Formal education will make you a
living. Self education will make you a fortune.
Talking about problems is an
addiction - about joy it may be prediction....yet declare it and the same would
happen.
A very good relationship needs just
two things. A little time to be spent with them and A true care to be shown
always.
We tend to teach people how to treat
us by what we allow, what we stop, and what we reinforce
No matter who you are, no matter
what you are, no matter where you have come from, you can always change
provided you want to...The two most important days in your life are the day you
are born and the day you find out why
Standing up...now way to
work...chair-free offices lead employees burning more calories and also saving
from diabetics. Let us stand, understand, withstand...to stand long and tall
Key is to keep things simple. Lock
is our own mental block with being disorganized and postponing things.
No discrimination between people for
God, Cancer, Technology, Mental agony and Scarcity mind. Be clear with the list
of inclusion - where your name has to be...!
The naked reality of shameless acts
of human is being watched through the lens of God's CCTV. He writes his verdict
in shadows that would come to light.
Doing good to others is not a duty
or shameful act. It is a joy, for it increases your own health and happiness.
Find the joy of being and doing good.
Everything is fine" - that
could be our illusion. Let's define everything; that is the solution. When we
define it is called GOAL, otherwise it is called TARGET.
It is not what you do for your
children, but what you have taught them to do for themselves, that will make
them successful human beings.
When something not so good happens,
there are 3 possibilities. You can either let it define you, let it destroy
you, or (better is) you can let it strengthen you. Believe. Behave. Be brave.
We need to control 3Ts - Temper,
Tongue, Temptation. 3Bs to watch - Beauty, Behavior, Bravery.
Being Happy does not mean everything
is perfect. It just means that you have decided to see everything beyond imperfections..
You know why God created gap between
fingers...so that some day a true friend like you will come and fill those gaps
by holding the hands forever.